This authoritative work presents an essentialperspective on love. In it, references are given from some of the best international specialists working on the subject today to examine LOVE's long and complex definitions from antiquity to the present day. In this book I have tried to find out the realities and the facts. I have found that there are ambiguities in the definitions of love. And the definitions are changed in order to attain goals which are based on lust, greed and selfishness in nature. In the research i have tried to reveal the reality that Love is a very sweet, sacred feeling but people have made it cheep and lustful. to fulfill their lustful desires they take advantage by saying "Every thing is fair is love and war" is this real love...? in my view that becomes selfishness. whereas Love demands selflessness, care, honor for each other. All the religions and systems support Love in its own nature.What do u think...? Every thing is fair in love and war...?