Deborah has taken one of the most difficult times anyone can experience and created a book that will make you laugh , cry and want to move ahead. She provides practical tips on how to maintain your sanity and your health, all the while urging you to simply breath and take one day at a time. The fact that it is based on her experience and not textbook advice allows the reader to envision themselves moving forward the same way Deborah was able to do. It gives hope for a very bright future, it just takes time to get there.