Dating around does not mean sleeping around

Playing the field is frowned on in some circles. There are definitely appropriate and inappropriate ways to date several men simultaneously. And unlike common opinion, it does not mean you are a skank!

In fact, multidating can be a sound strategy for finding someone with whom you want to be exclusive. Since so many first dates are also last dates, it makes sense to have several men in the pipeline at the same time. You can have several initial coffee dates set up in one weekend.

Which doesn't mean you should be cavalier about each of those men. You need to treat them with respect and courtesy. Some of them will want to remain friends and may become treasures in your life.

But how do you keep track of several men's conversations? That's what your Date-A-Base is for! You don't want to ask about a man's mother when he told you she died! Confusing two men's information is embarrassing. Learn to multidate with aplomb.

Sample topics:
• "Pimpin'" - Dating multiple men
• Multi-dating pros and cons
• Your Date-A-Base - tracking multiple suitors
• "Hot bunking" your beaus
• Are you a "Let's Make a Deal" type of dater?
• Assume there are other women
• Dating's revolving door
• How long do you hedge your bet?
• Beware of multi-tasking when multidating
• Back-burner beaus
• The boyfriend phone

Multidating Responsibly focuses on how to date around responsibly and with integrity without leading men on. If you do it with honesty, you can date several men at once until you're both ready to focus only on each other. Start learning how now!