To place the contemporary family is first of all turn our eyes to the discontinuous coverage raging off conviviality, which sometimes engender questions and conflicts caused by lack of place of belonging, sense of affective abandonment and disrespect to the Other in several instances! Thus, clears up the fact that discord inhabits contexts of conviviality before intended for Respect and the keeper order of rites and traditions as occurred in the anthropological cores Family, Education and Spirituality, for millennia. The contemporary world suffers sometimes from a relational dysfunction consequent of the lack of hierarchical reference, as is the instance that marks the place of speech and behavior. Without this parameter, enables disorganization, disorder, conflicts of unknown cause and the non-recognition of equal, which creates the social disorder in which we live!