Do you want more spontaneous intimacy with your man? Just know that simple touches are one of the very first and important steps towards making this happen. In addition to natural chemistry and attraction, setting the mood with drinks, music and some simple tips to guide you along your way will be all you need to begin or rekindle the sparks in your relationship.

The key to knowing how to utilize these simple touches are with your mouth, and not only with words. It does help to speak in a sexy tone or say all the right words. But, many people don't know a more sensual way to physically use your mouth that can do wonders for your intimate life.

Before rushing into all the obvious moves, first use your tongue to sensually move around your lover's lips after a long and passionate kiss.

Then secondly, move down and kiss his earlobes, neck and chest and use your tongue with the same sensuality. Pay a little extra attention to the nipple area.

Finally, remembering cleanliness is important for this last tip. Intimacy after dinner is good because everyone washes their hands before sitting at the table. Then move in for the kill and let him know what more is to come, by placing each of his fingers, yes fingers, in your mouth. Suck each finger as though they were all covered with delicious melted chocolate (and why not?).

He won't believe how erotic this can be. Now you may have shown him a new thing by turning him on to it, literally. It will definitely benefit you when he'll want to return the favor by announcing it's your turn! Enjoy.