Come with me on a voyage of self-discovery. Imagine you are the captain of your destiny and your mission is to find love. As with all great adventures, it is not necessarily going to be easy, but once we put on our Captain's hat and step onto the bridge we will start to take more conscious control of what we are doing in our relationships and learn to steer a better course.

Sometimes love might seem like a pretty, but illusory, fantasy invented by Hollywood to sell popcorn but don't be misled. Love is one of life's great constants. Love is just like the North Star; you can't always see it, but it is always there nonetheless. Grieve when you have lost something, forgive when you have been injured, but don't become bitter about love. Love can be relied upon to always be there. You can seek it out and you can find it everywhere. All you need to do is know where to start looking. Best of all, when you start to move your life towards love others will be inspired to follow you, truly, deeply, certainly